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Diary and Thoughts of an Engaged Man

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Are Men Scare Of Women ?

Why Women Pick Fights ?

Written by Kovac on 5:51 PM

This always puzzles me, I am an easy going guy who just wants to chill and have fun. My fiancee is the greatest I will admit but she can go from one day feeling so happy and nice to every little thing bothering her. She would even get mad at the computer if she can't find something. What is up with this ? Is there something I am missing ?

Jealousy

Written by Kovac on 9:55 PM

I consider myself to be an easy going guy and don't really get jealous with my fiancee. She thinks it's not normal for me to not be jealous because it shows that I don't care about her. My thinking is why be jealous of you trust her 100% and have confidence in her. I would think she will appreciate the respect I have for her in not being jealous but she thinks I am just not caring enough. So my question is do i need to be jealous to show her that I care or should i convince her that what I am doing is the best way ? 

Do Psychiatrists Know What They Are Talking About?

Written by Kovac on 11:08 PM

I was reading an article on Yahoo and a psychiatrist was talking about the steps to have a divorce proof marriage. I am not married yet but honestly it scares the shit out of me about getting divorced because I experienced my parents go through it twice and its not pretty but in all honesty is the talk talk of guidelines even relevant. I don't think you can have one formula that will just work for the masses. I think its nice to dream about having a guideline but I don't know if following a user guide is even possible.

Is it right to keep a harmless secret?

Written by Kovac on 2:37 PM

Well since I will be getting married in the future, I would like to discuss about a key issue that I have. This is just my second posting to this blog and I would like to know if I should let my fiancee know about it or should this be a secret that I keep to myself.

I am actually torn a bit in this issue because I think this should be my home away from home and I should keep it to myself. I think I should have a place where I can communicate my feelings and have a discussion with other people about things in my relationship.
But yet I also feel like I am about to be committed to this beautiful woman for a longtime and keeping secrets should not be an option in this new partnership.
So thats the dilemma I have to tell or not to tell ?

Introduction

Written by Kovac on 2:37 AM

Well I will start by giving my alias name as Kovac. I am 31 years old and needed to have a place to discuss some of the feelings I have about myself,relationships, life and society. There are a few blog sites out there about women's thoughts of how men are and act and I just needed a place to share my thoughts with people.

I have a beautiful fiancee that loves me alot and I am looking forward to getting married sometime next year. I don't know if I am alone in this but sometimes I have so many thoughts running through my mind about if I am making the right decision or if I am even cut out to be the married type. Now don't get me wrong I love my fiancee and believe that she is my soulmate, yet I feel scared. Yes as men we talk alot about being macho and not letting things get to us, but I will be honest and say that is all bullshit because I for one worry about the future lately. Even though it seems too soon to think of thinks like that so early but I wonder will I be able to feed my kids when I have them ? Can I earn enough to take care of a family ? Can I be able to compromise about my life style that I am used to ? etc etc. They just keep coming and coming.
Well I guess thats enough of an introduction and I will post more thoughts about my feelings very soon.

About Me

I am just an ordinary engaged man who is getting ready to get married. I have questions about what I should expect in my ultimate commitment. What should I expect and where am I going ?

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